The sadder but wiser boy

Lando and Dallas have spent their 20-year co-dependent friendship abusing each other with pranks and insensitivity. Now in their thirties, Dallas takes it upon himself to buy Lando some time with a lady of the night so he can finally "become a man." Over the course of the night, the true nature of the friends' relationship is laid bare, proving that maybe the real friends were the hookers we met along the way.

Directed & Edited by
DARYL DELLA
Written by
DARYL DELLA & SASHA BOGGS
Produced by
SASHA BOGGS
Cinematography by
DANIEL CRUZ
CAST
Lando
LORENZO OCON
Dallas
DARYL DELLA
Misty
SASHA BOGGS
Diner Waitress
KAYLA EMERSON
Diner Waitress 2
LORI CARSILLO
Trucker
RICHARD CASTROMAYOR
Burger Recipient
HOLLIS L. EDWARDS III
Wet Mouth
KIL THEODRICK
Diner Patrons
ERIC HOWARD
EVAN SANFORD
DOM VERSACI
KIRAN UMAPATHY
NATÁLIA ALVES
Jay
RAY REVELLO
Lola Bombay
LORI CARSILLO
Vegas Girl
BENNY NIKOLE
Cigarette Girl
BRITTANY CAIRO
Bar Patrons
ROBERT RUBY
JUSTINE STOUT
GRACIE RHODES
MADELYNN DABBS
LARKIN TEN ELSHOF
BECKER VON FELSBURG
RYAN FIDLER
Roderick Fredlins
TOM ARNOLD
Detective Hickey
SETH YAITANES
Detective Murphy
TARA ERICKSON
James Allen
JONATHAN CAIRO
CREW
Producers
DARYL DELLA
SASHA BOGGS
LORENZO OCON
BECKER VON FELSBURG
LORI CARSILLO
2nd Unit Assistant Camera
SASHA BOGGS
Gaffer
KAYLA EMERSON
Sound Recordists
LORI CARSILLO
KAYLA EMERSON
Production Assistants
KAYLA EMERSON
ERIC HOWARD
LORI CARSILLO
BECKER VON FELSBURG
Location Managers
CK SUSSMAN
JIM LOGAN
REX RIFFEL
Set Photographer
DANIEL CRUZ
5.1 Surround Sound Mixer
DARYL DELLA
Writing Consultants
MEGHAN GOLOVINOVA
MARY O'NEIL
MUSIC
"Wistful Longing" by TAIZO AUDIO
"Must've Been Dreaming" by THE COMMANDEERS
"Wildwood Flower" by BROTHER KEVIN
"Then You Came Into My Heart" by THE COMMANDEERS
"Have a Ball" by STONEY WATERS
"At Long Last Love"
Written by Cole Porter
Performed by LORI CARSILLO
"A Taste of Spring" by THE COMMANDEERS
"Dreamsteps" by THE COMMANDEERS
"Do You Love an Apple?" performed by HARPO MARKS
"Suddenly" by THE COMMANDEERS
"The Wild Side" by GRACE MESA
"I'm Just So Pretty" by BEX
"Emptiness" by EVOCATIV
"Real Boy" by DAVID QUINTANILLA
"Lovefool"
Written by Peter Svensson and Nina Persson
Performed by UKULELE HIRO
Shot on Location in
BURBANK, BURLINGAME, DALY CITY, FULLERTON, LAKE ELSINORE, AND SAN FRANCISCO, CA
AND LAS VEGAS, NV
SPECIAL THANKS
Kirsten Della
Henry, Elias, and Keira Della
Nina Della
Craig & Cora Boggs
Sarina Cruz
Grace & Jordyn Cruz
Carmy Ocon
David Quintanilla
Sarah Garand
Stephen Snider
Shanti DeLuca
Michael Martin
Meghan Golovinova
Mary O'Neil
Amelia Noyes
Summer Houser
Lea'R Sampson
Jovencio Ramiro
Matt Maniego
House of Shields
Wine Down SF
Landing Zone Cafe
Bourbon Street Fullerton
Dedicated in Loving Memory to
Sean McCourt
February 21, 1979 - August 15, 2022
and
Carroll William "Uncle Bill" Peil III
January 27, 1949 - October 23, 2022

What People Are Saying

“There’s an odd sweetness between the two leads. Lando always seems to be always walking on the edge of insanity, and Dallas takes an odd pleasure in keeping him on edge…

The short falls squarely in the cringe comedy category. In his attempt to lose his virginity, Lando is pushed to his most vulnerable moment while Dallas is pulling the strings.Though the plot may be cringe, the laughs come in the small moments with the jumping jacks and the combative nature between the friends…


While writing this review, I’m looking back at just how frustratingly fun The Sadder but Wiser Boy is.”

— Alan Ng, Film threat

If you've never spoken the words ‘That really good Tom Arnold film’ then here's your chance!

Screaming Ostrich Film Festival

“In Daryl Della‘s compelling short comedy drama, co-written with Sasha Boggs, the toxic undercurrents of a life-long friendship take center stage, unraveling a narrative that goes beyond laughter into the realms of insecurity, co-dependency, and self-discovery…

Della’s drama crafts a moving and comical journey that seamlessly balances humor with a poignant exploration of loneliness, sexuality, and the consequences of toxic friendships. The high-quality cinematography by Daniel Cruz enhances the visual appeal, complementing the terrific acting performances.

Despite its comedic elements, the film transcends the genre, leaving the audience with a real message about the importance of self-worth and the detrimental effects of toxic relationships. Della’s work stands as a testament to the potential of comedy to deliver powerful and thought-provoking narratives.”

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Original trailer

The charming true-life adventures of two lifelong co-dependent friends who won't stop abusing each other. Now in their thirties, Dallas (Daryl Della) decides it's time to help Lando (Lorenzo Ocon) finally become a man. Nothing like Rain Man or The 40-Year-Old Virgin at all!

“Real Boy” Music Video

david quintanilla ft. lorenzo ocon & sasha boggs

From the Soundtrack to Dollars & Donuts' The Sadder but Wiser Boy

Produced by Mad Sounds Productions

Characters

  • Dallas

    DARYL DELLA

  • Lando

    LORENZO OCON

  • Misty

    SASHA BOGGS

  • Roderick Fredlins

    TOM ARNOLD

  • Vegas Girl

    Benny Nikole

  • Lola Bombay

    LORI CARSILLO

behind the scenes

Director’s statement

The Sadder but Wiser Boy is more than a comedic short film; it's an intimate peek into a two-decade-long friendship between me and my buddy Lorenzo. While some of the escapades may seem too insane to be real, I assure you, they happened.

Lando and Dallas, while exaggerated for the screen, echo the essence of our dynamic – navigating a sea of pranks, screaming matches, and those unbelievable (and maybe regrettable) moments. Through this film, I sought not only to entertain but also to reflect, utilizing the camera as both a mirror and a magnifying glass.

In presenting The Sadder but Wiser Boy, I offer not just a piece of cinema, but a piece of my own life, raw and unvarnished. It's a confessional in the guise of fiction, a testament to the beautiful absurdity of the ups, downs, and sideways of a friendship that's lasted way longer than it maybe should have.

  • Daryl Henry Della

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